Taujih 2 : Don’t wait until you feel like taking a positive action. Take the action, and then you will feel like doing it.

Garry my assistant. She helped me out of a bind by doing something she didn’t really want to do. However, after taking that first step, she became highly motivated, and her self-image improved dramatically. Her confidence started to soar, her personality blossomed and she became more assertive. She started setting bigger goals, her optimism rose, she became more positive. The results speak for themselves.

Let me point out that Garry started with only courage, compassion, pride, and humility, she was conscientious, absolutely dependable and a very hard worker. She developed other success qualities as a direct result o fusing what she already had. That’s a tremendous lesson for you to learn about motivation!

Don’t miss a major, major point. The motivation came after she took action. Lesson-don’t wait until you feel like taking a positive action. Take the action and then you will feel like doing it. That’s taking responsibility. And when Garry did that, the picture she had of herself changed and her life changed.

The same can happen for you. Don’t wait any more for the feeling to hit you. The motivation will come after you take those first steps.

JUST DO IT

Will you?

Taujih 1: The secret of getting ahead is getting started

All of us have undoubtedly made the statement, “I don’t feel like it,” a number of times. This expression in this particular instance has nothing to do with whether or not we are having a coronary or a migraine. I has to do with something which we need to do and should do, but don’t want to do, so we simply say, “I just don’t feel like it.”

There’s been an on-going conflict between doing our own thing and not doing things we really don’t want to do because we don’t feel like doing them. But the question is , “Can we trust those feeling?” Looking at the physical, any of you who have ever participated in any athletic endeavor know there have been many occasions when you did not “feel like” going out for practice, but because you did not want to incur the wrath of the coach and face possible dismissal from the team, you grudgingly got prepared, went to the practice field, and resentfully started routine. A few minutes after you got into action, you began to feel a little better, and the more action you took, the better you felt. Then you went all out.

The message is simple: Do it and you will feel like doing it.

Just study and you will feel like studying

Just work and you will feel like working

Just read and you will feel like reading

Just love and you feel like loving

NIKE - JUST DO IT

How about you?

Valentine ku abadi

1. Artikel : Ku punya gaya tersendiri meraikan cinta dan kawan

Seorang rakan ku (supi bukan nama sebenar) tiba-tiba berkata "Valentine dowh, Valentine! Nok aku tolong bli hadioh ko mung? haha.." Sambil membasuh cawan di sinki.

Aku tercengang. Diam. Otak aku yang layu ketika itu secara mendadak ligat memproses input. Maka aku output terhasil adalah :

- aku buat muka 'stone'

- pandangan aku tepat ke Supi,

- laju aku lontarkan persoalan " Nape mung eh? Mende rimau Valentine?"

Supi masih membilas cawannya, " Valentine la gilo! Sek guo mung ni, tobak eh..". dengan nada hampir tergelak.

" Mano aku taw, tok penah sambut eh, tok penah ado dale planner aku" . Aku mengacau air, alasan untuk aku terus di dapur, aku mahu berada dalam dialog itu. Sufi turut membuat air teh.

" Beli la bungo meroh ko awek mung, bungo kuning ko kawe tino mung hok mu rapat.. nate ni, wat2 tok tau.." Supi tergelak besar

Laju saja dia bab mengutuk. " romantik la skit bro.. say to your awek, i lap u vely much dowh.. haha.. oopss, tok ingat, mu xdok awek dok.. mung gay dok? ahahah, I'm Kema, i'm gay i'm ok"

Tanpa sempat aku mencelah, Supi menganas. hati aku berbara dalam tawa.

" Gay mung!". jawapan ringgas tanda malas.

" oo. Kiro meraikan cinta la ni.. " aku memulakan silat bahasa.

Supi diam, mimik muka nya menampakkan tanda setuju.. Supi tersengih girang.

" stakat tu jah romantik mung? dok rok chetong mu Supi.. haha"

Supi tergelak besar, " doh guane, acu kabo skit kat ku? mu bunyi ganah molek nah"

" Kalo mung meraikan cinta setiap 14 feb tiap2 tahun. Aku meraikan cinta setiap hari! Setiap hari utk aku adalah hari cinta. Setiap bisikan aku adalah ungkapan cinta , setiap hembusan nafas aku, aku meraikan cinta. Mazhab cinta aku adalah keikhlasan bukan Valentine DAy! Hadiah aku adalah kasih sayang bukan mawar meroh kuning biru kelabu.. Aku rindu awek aku tiap2 ari bukan setahun sekali. Kalo mung amik sehari raikan cinta, aku amik 365 hari raikan cinta."

"Oh nate, pedah molek.. haha" gelak Supi. Itulah housemate aku, Supi, aku cukup faham dengan hati budi dia, gelak itu tanda dia akui kekalahan.

Belom hilang gema ketawa Supi, aku menambah " Aku ado dua hari rayo jah, rayo poso nge rayo haji. xdok rayo lain doh. Allah wi duo butir ni jah.. Nok wat rayo Valentine ko, rayo gapo ko, xsoh jadi ore ah, jadi lembu.. Toke wi duo, panda2 nk wat tigo plok"

Pedas. Tapi ini cara kami, entah macam mana, tapi inilah cara kami. Memang berdarah hati, terbakar telinga mendengar, tapi kami faham, ni gaya kami. Supi masih tersengih sambil menghirup teh buatan sendiri.

Dah. itulah perasaan aku. dah terluah. Supi menzahirkan kerut dan tenungnya. ya, itu tanda die termenung. Kata-kata aku menghentak benak fikir Supi.

Apepun, aku mahu beredar. study plak. Perlahan aku menoleh membelakangi Supi.

" Sape awek mung ma?" terdengar suara Supi dari belakang.

Aku hanya mampu mengukir senyuman.

Dan aku tuliskan nama awek aku dengan bahasa lidah.

" Perjuangan!"

haduh, sepanjang intern langsung x update dowh

7jun - 14 jan, gua/saye/den/ana/aku intern kat Johnson & Johnson

laptop hilang, kete member eksiden, pegi sane sini, merantau, cari pasal, wat bisnes cari duit, jumpe org alim, lepak2, baca buku, bla3..

dan aku kembali setelah 8 bulan..

YE, hanya 8 bulan di KL, aku melihat dunia dari perspektif berbeza.

YE, mature than.

n 4 sure, me still me.

cont blogging~